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Except probably for introverts with a steady job and without underlying health conditions in a comfortable lock down arrangement, this has not been an easy year.
My lock down experience has been both healing and growing. Crazy homesick for Yangon, separated from loved ones and physically alone, fending for myself here in London. With a ton of walking; so the new HAIM album is literally my quarantine summer anthem this year.
All this time in hand and a dearth of distractions make for a perfect storm for self-reflection … and overthinking of my life choices dating back to my college graduation year. Down the rabbit hole of the Quarantine Subconscious, I wake up at 5am these days when I’d rather stay asleep with questions like:
- Is impact investing a hoax? Is climate-financing the new green washing? Is it too late? If so, should I be caring more about money?
- Should I cut some slack with boys, or am I right to protect myself? Did I fold too soon when I could have just checked? Would I care without quarantine?
- Would I have been happier as a suburban mom in the American South vs. my lonely quarantine existence in London with an expired Schengen visa?
- How would my life be different if I had taken the offer to work for a hospital chain or a Fintech company close to family in Myanmar?
- Have I been living my best life? Have I been true to myself?
- AM I DOING ENOUGH?
Now that I have a London zip code, a UK bank account, a Giff Gaff number, and a national health insurance code, I am about 90% set on becoming a London resident. I believe that this relocation process will be officially complete once my Apple App Store is switched to a UK account.
As a born and raised Yangonite, I will always carry a part of Yangon wherever I shall live in the next couple of years. As much as I enjoy my new life in London, with its very British way of calm and collected energy, the chaotic Yangon is always in the back of my mind.
And I started dreaming about being back at my family home since the very first week, which is NOT how homesickness normally works. When you are homesick usually, you get really excited and high on the new place for the first few weeks or even months, and a sense of longing kicks in later. In my case, I am having this parallel experience of thoughts about home, an excitement about London, and a hectic beginning of the orientation modules at school, all at the same time. This has not given me much time to decompress.
What will become of this blog? No idea so far.
Listening to Karen’s Mixtapes floods my flat with Yangon nostalgia. And I also found a playlist I gave her last year, titled The Well Curve. Here is the same playlist on YouTube.
“It’s called The Well Curve because it’s low on the middle and high at the extremes, which is how you feel when you go through a negative experience. These 5 songs are supposed to accompany your journey through The Well Curve.”
Enjoy your Well Curve journeys!